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■ symbolic opposition fancy school puppy love,scarpe hogan outlet, the student will not be contrary to a stick and killed, psychological experts are not optimistic about its effect

August 24, Mop online a "high school boys and girls talking distance of not less than 60 cm rules and regulations," the post,woolrich donna, causing hot friends. This said friends made by an anonymous post, Baoding, a middle school student in order to prevent the development of puppy love "accurate to the centimeter" of the school rules. After an interview with reporters yesterday, verify that the school year, there is indeed a "boys and 60 cm" provides a new student handbook. Rules and regulations regarding this attitude,http://pogalgraph.px2.jp/cgi-bin/diary/diary.cgi, school and friends but has a different view.

User

Normal intercourse between men and women, so too the rules and regulations

"High school boys and girls talking distance of not less than 60 cm of the rules and regulations that you can not afford to hurt ah! School have to take a ruler", August 24th, a netizen published online Mop such a post.

Post content display, a high school student in Baoding manual, "male and female students on the provisions of normal relations," the first part as follows: "In addition to the normal teaching, meetings, the male and female students in the classroom, corridor,http://vegalta7.s156.xrea.com/aska/aska.cgi/360/?%E5%A1%AB%E5%86%99?%E7%9A%84%E7%BD%91%E5%9D%80, campus conversation, distance is not less than 60 cm;. place visible to others in the school should be selected, bright public spaces. "In addition to this, the remaining few have made a" male and female students in the conversation, do not allow any physical contact, such as handles, hug, pat each other behaviors, such as physical contact, girls and boys can not bear to walk, tugging back and forth, fooling around on campus, male and female students in the school cafeteria or can not bear to eat elsewhere, whispering to each other and so can not appear in more intimacy when dining. "

Reporters found that in addition Mop on the school's Baidu Post Bar, there are a lot of posts about "boys and 60 cm rules and regulations," the. Replies from numerous tone look, Replies should mostly have not yet entered the student community. The replies were also one-sided attitude, most expressed opposition and understand -

Sharp type: "This is a bit much,http://gamsa.net/guestbook/index.php?item/create_form/1, too normal intercourse between men and women, girls do not talk to boys become good friends do student friend is the most pure friendship ah?."

Ridicule type: "from the United States?"

Exclaimed type: "This is too tough."

Aggressive: "Direct-inflicted man or woman school school is not on it?"

"I heard only on the high school was very strict tube, can be accurate to centimeters like school rules, some people feel horrible." Yao Yao said the next higher soon, and male students in junior high school when walking side by side, between classes prank joke thing is common, estimated distances are less than 60 cm. "I want the school to do so, but also to the students well, just like my mom nagging ear all day, do not like puppy love. But I still think that the rules and regulations of the tube a little awkward to centimeters."

School

Fancy symbolic meaning, that it will not support puppy love attitude

Mentioned in the post,http://www.24jq.com/home.php?mod=spacecp&ac=blog&blogid=, "school rules for boys and girls 60 cm distance" true it? Yesterday morning, the reporter went to a middle school in Baoding poster mentioned verification.

"Student Handbook does have such a provision." An official in charge of students' moral education in the school admitted to reporters a student handbook distributed to high school this year, a newborn. In the ninth page of the manual, the reporter found consistent with users post content. For the development of "boys and 60 cm away from the rules and regulations" of the mind, the official said, mainly in order to show that the schools do not support students puppy love their attitude. "Puppy love high school students, so that parents who live in fear, but also to the school a headache." The official said, before the puppy was delayed because the students learn, parents find the school trouble things happened no less, to the school caused a lot pressure. When freshman year to write the student handbook, the school is responsible for moral education teachers together opened a brief meeting to discuss the development of a number of campus culture can enhance the prevention of students puppy love school rules. Taking into account the previous section describes the rules and regulations concerning gender classmates are too vague, such as "may not have too intimate act." But what is meant by "too intimate behavior," but can not tell. So in the student handbook freshman year this provision more refined, there is a "except classes, meetings, the distance when talking to girls and boys of not less than 60 cm" requirement.

For the "60 cm", the school is a reference to what factors to develop it? The official said,http://meguru.jp/cgi-bin/joyful/./joyful.cgi, "60 centimeters" both male and female students to consider the need for regular exchanges, but also consider the psychological feelings during normal conversation between people. "Just like a noodle banks." The official explained that, in addition to the best distance outside such as intimacy between husband and wife, the conversation between people is about one meter, at this distance neither strenuous improve voice, there will be no sense of embarrassment. Too close, as people crowded bus in the car,http://www.iwantsay.com/forum.php?mod=viewthread&tid=100004&extra=, it will have the feeling of discomfort and distress. Therefore, to maintain a certain distance exchanges and mutual respect between people's needs. "60 cm" school rules, but also to enhance the school campus culture, students 'gentleman boys and girls are ladies' specific measures.

"60 cm" The actual implementation of the rules and regulations it feasible? The official said, the school is the first to develop such rules and regulations, has not yet started, and it is hard to say, to wait for some time after school to see. However, although the moral education teacher school routine inspections will also require teachers to teach ran to the front to stop, but the rules and regulations or a more symbolic significance,http://bbs.kj0818.com/forum.php?mod=viewthread&tid=155161&fromuid=8656, indicating a distinct attitude of the school. Even if a student found in violation of the rules and regulations of this, it will not "kill a stick", but treat specific conditions. Even students puppy love, it will not because it violates the rules and regulations of this direct criticism, punish the students, so that students self-esteem injured. After School will communicate with parents, then educational measures.

Parents

Can take control of puppy love

My son is closed off all right

Almost one-sided on the network voice contrary, parents for school introduced such measures, the majority holding in favor of or opposed to the attitude.

When reporters learned Baoding some high school parents, playing online games and puppy love is most worried about the impact of their children to learn two "scourge." Baoding public DING, said after his son in high school,http://www.8liuxing.com/home.php?mod=spacecp&ac=blog&blogid=, less and less time at home,louboutin femme, she wanted to give his son and his wife occasionally playing the "vaccination", son always appeared very impatient, saying heavy afraid of hurting another child self-esteem . I heard my colleagues because kids want to drop out of school puppy love even to the point where she is feeling terror, there is little sign found his son will not live in fear for a long time. "Most of the time children stay in school, as parents will not have much effect, so I feel the school for boys and girls are responsible for a number of exchanges is tight. After all, children age is still small, less understand things on their own control is poor, need to be borne in some schools constraint. When he grew into the community, and have plenty of time to engage in the object now delayed puppy love learning, not get into a good university, will put the child's life to the delay. "

"Now under the education system and social pressures, whether parents or schools, most attention is a good children's grades were not good, can not be admitted to prestigious universities. This is every high school parents can not be denied. As long as the school allows students to focus are used in the study, so that students can be admitted to a good university graduate, male and female students not to mention close to 60 cm, is to put my son in solitary confinement are OK. "Baoding Wang said the people, in order to take control of his son puppy love, he operated broken heart. Many secondary schools in Singapore are segregated institution, if Baoding have this condition, he would not hesitate to send him to a boys' school to go to school, save the son of puppy love to bring their own troubles.

Reporter survey found that "fear puppy affect academic performance," is generally supportive of parents of high school students, "60 centimeters" the rules and regulations of the reasons.

Psychological experts

Not optimistic about the results

Schools should guide relations between boys and girls

For the "60 cm" school rules, psychological counseling rather than simply plugging experts said.

"Although the starting point of the school is good, but I think this is not a particularly desirable school rules, the actual effect is a question mark." Provincial deputy director of the psychological clinic six homes from a physician, said Liu. High school students are at puberty, as the body's development, the opposite sex hazy impression,parajumpers jakke, is inevitable at this stage there, but also different from adults in love,abercrombie outlet online, it should not be treated as a scourge. "60 cm" school rules will limit of normal relations between male and female students in the psychology of this restriction is called depression. Have to worry about is that students may be able to pipe in the school to comply with the place, but in the tube can not place more eager to try.

"Because the child puppy love, there is no shortage brought psychological counseling and treatment of parents." Dr. Liu said that the recent admissions of her case, the child refuses to go to school because of puppy love, frustration and even parents 24 hours to track. However, analysis of these cases, the fundamental reason lies in the lack of a warm home, the parents of the children are too stringent requirements, only concerned with the results and ignore their child needs to grow. Children experiencing problems scared to be punished without parents dare to talk, right there they have a favorable impression of the opposite sex, it becomes hazy goodwill puppy love. So parents to communicate with their children inside, let the children are willing to listen to the truth to say to parents, that child of the opposite sex have hazy goodwill should be promptly after counseling, prevention is the key to puppy love.

For schools, the full use of school psychology education resources, is in the adolescent children to interact between sex education and sex guide, the effect than to restrict, suppress better.

□ reporter Wang Yang